9/18/21

We had a party tonight at E1. There as a lot to analyze that went down. The way that we should host a party in the future should be guided by these principals-


 * Do not invite John M, he is a negative influence that shits on people consistently. He talked shit to many people that he came to know AT THAT TIME. Asshole for doing so, will likely cut off friendship with him.
 * Do not invite Jul. This one is guided by Dan's influence, he pointed out that Jul brings people down to his negative energies and kind of brings down the mood. I've noticed he would have separate groups around him, and those groups would often be engaged in more serious or somber conversations than other groups.
 * Cole is a maybe to invite. I genuinely love Cole, but if his presence requires John being there, don't invite. He is a bit antisocial and engages with those he knows.
 * Matt K was supposed to come, but he did not. This threw the balance of the party into jeopardy, since he was a keystone social figure that had access to so many more girls than we did. He was justified in not coming, but we kind of put all of our eggs into one social basket with Matt. In the future, perhaps we can bring in more people who are a bit further from our group.
 * Josiah had a party of 15 people and called it dead. In meeting new people and socializing, this is a massive resource. He came to us at like 2:30 and talked to us at our table.
 * The alcohol was good. People did not notice the art gallery of stupid drawings, except at the beginning when we pointed them to it. The house head and plague mask were much better because they could interact with them.
 * The girls were uncomfortable with how few girls there were there.

Overall tonight was successful. It was some dudes chillin, a bit awkward, until Ashley and Aldrean's friends showed up, then it was poppin. Luka is a great addition, extremely sociable. Basically, we need people who are able to connect with random people. Because we need random people.